The #1 Secret to Becoming a Speaker People Remember (Even If You're Just Starting Out)
Introduction
In a world flooded with content and constant noise, it’s not enough to just deliver a speech—you need to leave a lasting impression.
Whether you’re speaking to students, educators, professionals, or peers, your goal isn’t just to inform. It’s to inspire, connect, and be remembered.
But here’s the good news: You don’t need years of experience, a viral video, or a polished stage presence to be unforgettable.
There’s one core principle that separates forgettable speakers from those who make a real impact—and today, we’re going to share that with you.
The #1 Secret? Speak from Your Story, Not Just Your Script.
That’s it.
Your story is your superpower.
While most new speakers focus on what to say—facts, stats, frameworks—the most memorable speakers focus on who they are and what they’ve lived through.
People remember stories, not slides.
They connect with emotion, not bullet points.
They respond to realness, not rehearsed perfection.
Why Your Story Works (Even If You Think It's Ordinary)
Many aspiring speakers make the mistake of thinking they need a dramatic or “TED-worthy” experience to be compelling. That’s not true.
Your story doesn’t need to be extraordinary. It just needs to be:
Authentic
Relevant
Told with purpose
Whether you overcame self-doubt, helped a student succeed, or learned a tough life lesson—if you can communicate that journey with honesty and insight, you will connect.
Remember: Audiences don’t relate to perfection. They relate to humanity.
How to Use Your Story to Be Remembered
Here’s a simple 3-part storytelling framework that even new speakers can use:
The “P.A.S.” Method:
P – Problem: Share the challenge you or someone else faced.
A – Action: Explain what steps were taken to overcome it.
S – Shift: Highlight the lesson or transformation that came from it.
This format makes your message relatable, emotional, and easy to follow.
Whether your story lasts two minutes or ten, it becomes the glue that holds your talk together—and the reason people remember you.
Add Emotion + Purpose = Impact
To elevate your story from good to unforgettable, infuse it with:
Emotion: Don’t just tell what happened—share how it felt.
Purpose: Tie it to the takeaway you want your audience to walk away with.
When people feel something, they’re more likely to remember something.
Tip: If you’ve ever cried, laughed, doubted, failed, or overcome—you have a story someone in your audience needs to hear.
Common Mistakes New Speakers Make (That You Can Avoid)
Trying to sound “professional” instead of being real
Be conversational. Speak like a guide, not a guru.Overloading with content and under-delivering connection
Less is more. Focus on one message with depth, not five surface-level points.Forgetting to practice delivery
Practice your tone, pauses, and pacing—not just your words.
Final Thoughts: You Are the Message
The mic doesn’t make you powerful. Your presence, your story, and your heart do.
You don’t have to be perfect.
You don’t have to be polished.
You just have to be real, ready, and rooted in something meaningful.
When you show up with your full story—and you learn to tell it with impact—you become unforgettable.
Want to Learn How to Use Your Story to Get Booked and Paid?
Dr. Wright’s Speak, Inspire, Influence Coaching Program helps new and aspiring speakers:
Clarify their story
Craft a signature speech
Build confidence on stage
Get booked and monetize their message